Orgasm & Sex Toys
Sincerely yours… Orgasm
Not that much time ago, all the magazines for women were ready to share the weird tips and advices of either how to prepare home made ceramic pots, according to an obsolete Dutch ritual, without washing your underwear for 3 months, or where to find the best African noodle-worms that will make the soil in your backyard more fertile, or how to open the doors of a blocked between the floors elevator by means of your finger nails and a bunch of utter curses, or what-so-bloody-ever but not revealing the divine secrets of female masturbation. Nowadays, thanks to more advanced techniques of sexual information, situation has drastically changed.
The modern society has finally understood that there is nothing shameful and criminal in exciting your mind and arousing the most sensual spots on your body to, eventually, dive into the spring of pure pleasure and unique sensations of sexual bliss. Masturbation, the act of self-exploring, self-pleasing and self-discovering, is a much more complex action than just a mere physical satisfaction and should be definitely attributed to the ART OF LOVE as one of its most important part.
At this point, when you’re seeking for different ways of exploring your sexual fantasies and stimulating the hot spots on your body, what can spice up the sensations are, of course, adult sex toys. Thanks to modern technologies, “solo play” is now at that stage of its evolution where any woman can enjoy everything what concerns sexual satisfaction, including the sensational moments of an orgasm. By using sex toys during masturbation you can prototype your own orgasm, combining your favorite types of stimulations and introducing experimental and delightful elements to your solo fun. By getting to know your own body better, you can find the shortest, or vice-verse, the longest, however the most pleasing, way to total sexual pleasure.
Moreover, masturbation can help a woman keep the sexual, as well as spiritual, aspect of her personal life rather balanced. Secondly, when a woman feel exhausted, depressed or stressed, self-pleasing process makes such routine and unpleasant moments of her day-by-day life style vanish in the myriad of delightful sensations. And finally, most essential and substantial element of them all, masturbation feeds a woman with that vital sexual energy that makes her feel the pride of being a WOMAN
This is what Erika, 25 years old, student of the medical college of Boston, has told us about her first masturbation experience, how she discovered adult toys and how they made her masturbation sessions more exciting and exquisite:
“I have never masturbated in my adolescence and I think I didn’t even know what exactly “masturbation” actually meant by that time. Once upon a time, when I was 15, I spent my summer in San Diego and I had to share the bedroom with my cousin Cindy, who was a year elder than me. Before going to sleep we had a little chat about our favorite rock stars and than the lights went dark. I started to fall asleep, whereas Cindy hasn’t even thought about doing that. Closer to midnight, I was woken up by strange noises, moaning and sighs. I thought there’s something wrong with Cindy. I got out of the bed and switched on the light. “Cindy, are you all right?” “Sure I am. I was just masturbating” she said.
Of course, I had my sexual dreams and fantasies. I frequently have been thinking about boys and male celebrities I found handsome and charismatic. However, my mother has never spoken to me about sex. I asked her once, where do children come from but she replied that I’ll find that out later but this “later” has never come. Maybe, she found it difficult to express herself on this topic, I don’t know. But that night Cindy showed me what masturbation means. That night turned my world upside down and downside up.
She has confessed me that her most preferable play is clitoris stimulation and instead of trying to continue the conversation revealing all the secret details, she just pulled my panties off and touched my clitoris with her soft fingers. I was shocked and stood still for a moment, until she started rubbing her finger against my clitoris. It was amazing. After a couple of minutes she shoved her middle finger inside of me, keeping rubbing with the other hand my clitoris. She did that so skillful like she was doing that for centuries. What can I say, it was just phenomenal. That was the night that changed my life.”
Some time later, about 3-4 years, when I dropped by a sex shop just for fun, my attention was captured by a couple of sex toys that I could not resist the temptation to buy. These were: a rabbit vibrator, a realistic dildo, a double dildo, some lubricants and a kit of butt plugs, as anal play was something I was really eager to try but was afraid that it’s going to be painful. So, as it was my first-night with adult toys I didn’t know exactly what should I expect from them. The anxiety took over the awareness and something deep inside of me told: “Erika, don’t be afraid. You gonna like it.” That was also quite a challenge to make my mind up which toy should I start with but the answer came by itself. I felt a strong desire, frantic impulses coming from my clitoris, so, I decided that I’ll start with the rabbit vibrator that actually has a double effect, stimulating clitoris and vagina walls including the G-spot, at the same time. I slept very little that night because I tried every single sex toy that I’ve bought. Fantastic time!
Now, after I’ve tried about a hundred of adult sex toys, I’ve got several so called sex toy boxes with all my favorite adult delights. One can find there any types of products from the adult industry, starting with various kinds of vibrators and vibrating accessories, dildos and anal toys and ending with toys and accessories for bondage play. BDSM play has become a new kink of mine recently.
My “addiction” to them did not affect my personal life. My former boyfriends and the current one as well had a positive attitude towards my interest to adult products and many times we’re having sex we never hesitate to bring the toys into the game.
You might ask yourselves what happened to Cindy, well, sometimes we reminisce that night and even re-play it.”
As you may see adult toys gave our hero that sexual freedom any woman would like to have. Besides, Erika, has became a real expert in what concerns her sexual satisfaction and can experience an orgasm any time she wants, unlike those women who still simulate it and waits for miracles that some day their partners will “satisfy” them. Erika is really happy that she has such a sex life, where pleasure is her best friend.
