Masturbation & Orgasms
The pure truth about female desires,
masturbation and orgasms
Sooner or later every young lady starts to explore her body and search for those delightful areas that we all know as erogenous zones. During this process, of self-exploration, many women, as a fact, find it rather intriguing and thrilling that they can achieve sexual satisfaction without anyone’s help! Every woman has to face such a period in her life and, depending on how was her first masturbation experience, her sex preferences will start to emphasize and her sexual character will start to built up accordingly.
One recent sex survey has displayed rather interesting data regarding female masturbation, where 34% of the surveyed women confessed that their first exploration of the body happened very early, before they reached the age of 12. In most of the cases, especially if parents had reacted properly to such a phenomenal evolution of their daughter’s sexual instinct, these ladies, when grown up, still practice self-satisfaction plays in their day by day life. More than that, during sexual intercourses, they feel rather comfortable of “lending themselves a helping hand” and stimulate the hot spots on their body, which their sexual partner refuses or forgets to take into consideration as a source of tremendous pleasure during the love game. Also, these women are more open to new sexual sensations and feel very comfortable with everything that’s new in sex: oral sex, anal sex, adult toys, bondage play and all the other little, but rather pleasurable, sex tricks that are so amazing but still remain undiscovered for a vast number of women.
On the other hand, women from this category, also, said that they got so much used to self-satisfaction play that they are able to respond only to certain ways of stimulation, which, from one side, could be considered by others as a day-by-day monotonous pattern for achieving an orgasm, whereas, from another side, these ladies know exactly what they want and how to get it.
Our 2nd group of surveyed women, around 29%, revealed that their first solo fun took place when they where about 16. Specialists claim that women of this category could be considered as a model of a “normal woman” and a standard for sexual guides for college freshmen. Another interesting fact in this aspect would be that women from this category do never, otherwise very seldom, have problems with such sexual dysfunctions as frigidity and the lack of sexual pleasure.
In the majority of cases these persons are very emotionally balanced, self-confident and rather optimistic – because their sexual desires do not cross the borders of social morals and are characteristic for a “normal woman”. As a matter of fact, they do not have any problems in their personal lives, no matter, whether it is just a spontaneous flirt or a serious relationship. Just like their colleagues from the first group, these women accept masturbation as a fact of self satisfaction, as well as during the sexual game with a partner. And, while some women choose to keep it “old school style” using their fingers for that, more and more of them prefer to do it by means of adult sex toys. Vibrators, as well as different other types of vibrating sex toys, are the number one chosen sex delights for most of women. Using different types of vibrators during the foreplay and sex, such as: G-spot vibrators, anal vibrators, clit stimulators or nipple vibrating clamps, they intensify the blissful sensations, which, eventually, bring to earth-quaking orgasms. Some women tend to select for their bedroom fun sex toys other than vibrators, like, for example dildos, butt plugs, anal beads and probes, ticklers or sex toys and accessories from the bondage category collection, but this is just a matter of taste.
Here comes the 3rd group, around 23% of surveyed women, who experience the delights of solo play only after 21. This type of women, due to the late sexual maturation, can experience a real orgasm only during the 3rd decade of their lifetime. Sexual future for such women very much depends on their partner. Women from this group can turn into sensational lovers, with a tremendous desire of sex, and, in the same time, live in harmony with their inner ego and be a wonderful wife to her man.
The most complicated aspect, at this point, is the partner selection stage. If the lady goes wrong with her choice, which, to be frankly, happens quite often for women of the given group, their dreams of a sex utopia and a happy family life collapse like a card house. They refuse to accept the beauties of sex, they feel uncomfortable even when they hear the word “sex”, their sexual system start to respond to sexual stimulation less and less enthusiastically, which might bring to a complete sexual catastrophe – frigidity or anorgasmia.
And finally, our journey comes to a logical end with the 4th category of women – 19%, more or less. Their “fatal error” is not the time when they start masturbating, had their first sex contact or used a dildo for self pleasing but the purposes why they are doing it. Women of these category, by means of sex, try to escape from their reality, thinking that sexual satisfaction of their personal ego MUST be placed above all. They try to solve their problems by means of new partners, every time choosing the wrong one, and in most of the cases they feel no pleasure at all from sex. Even adult toys is not a way out in this case. They have to change their inner world, their mentality and their attitude to receive the gifts of life as they are and the emotional and spiritual satisfaction, as well as sexual pleasure, in this case, will come by itself, like a side effect.
No matter to which category you might belong to, remember, there are no certain standards in reality. Just keep in mind that female masturbation is a wonderful approach of physical and emotional discharge and a brilliant way of self sexual exploration, satisfaction and education.
